OK, stepping in to try and prevent the sort of issues we've had before. My official advice is-
Keep track of the number of days since PayPal payment was made. There is a limit to how long you have to issue chargebacks.
Keep any and all correspondence that proves you paid for the item, and any communication with the seller to prove they admit it has not been sent yet/will be sent soon.
If it starts getting close to the charge back deadline & you have not received your item/a tracking number to prove it's been sent out, the seller is not returning your communications, Open A Claim With Paypal.
If a seller is requesting you pay with Family & Friends, report them to myself or Zia through PMs. This is NOT allowed, and offers the buyer NO protection should the seller run off with your money.
Be safe, be smart, and use common sense when buying! We want the forums to be a fun, safe community for every one to enjoy.